Our Milestone Go-to-Guide

Watching your baby grow and learn is one of life's greatest joys. However, keeping track of developmental milestones can sometimes feel overwhelming. With a sea of information online, it's hard to know what's truly relevant.

That's why we've created this simple guide, drawing on the expertise of the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), the World Health Organization (WHO), and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). It provides a clear overview of key milestones, helping you understand your child's unique journey.

Please remember, every child develops at their own pace. This guide is designed to support your child's growth, not stress you out. Use it to identify opportunities for gentle encouragement and playful activities, and always celebrate your little one's individual achievements.


Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

Birth - 2 Months

Lifts head briefly while on tummy, turns head side to side

Grasps objects reflexively, hands mostly fisted

Rooting reflex still present, learning the skill of latching

Cries for needs, makes cooing sounds

Explores environment through senses, prefers faces

Focuses on faces close up, tracks objects briefly

Responds to comfort, recognizes caregivers

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

3 - 4 Months

Lifts chest while on tummy, supports self on forearms, rolls from tummy to back

Reaches for toys, holds objects in hand briefly

Begins to develop head control for feeding, pushes tongue out less

Smiles responsively, laughs, coos more frequently

Anticipates routines, begins to recognize familiar objects and people.Anticipates routines, begins to recognize familiar objects and people

Follows moving objects, reaches for objects in sight

Smiles socially, enjoys being held

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

5 - 6 Months

Rolls both ways, sits with support, begins to push up on hands and knees

Transfers objects between hands, brings hands to mouth

Begins to eat solids (purees), can hold bottle 

with help

Babbles, begins to imitate sounds

Explores by mouthing and grasping, shows curiosity in surroundings.

Tracks moving objects more smoothly, recognizes familiar people from a distance

Laughs out loud, shows excitement or distress

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

7 - 8 Months

Sits without support, may begin crawling

Begins using pincer grasp, bangs objects together

Eats mashed foods, may begin self-feeding with hands

Responds to name, uses simple gestures like waving

Finds partially hidden objects, enjoys cause-and-effect toys

Focuses on small objects, more precise hand-eye coordination

May experience stranger anxiety, shows attachment to caregivers

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

9 - 10 Months

Pulls to stand, stands while holding on, may begin cruising

Points with finger, can manipulate small objects

Drinks from a sippy cup, tries finger foods

Understands ‘no’, babbles with more variety

Imitates actions, enjoys simple problem solving (eg: shape sorters)

Enjoys looking at pictures in books, points to objects of interest

Demonstrates preferences for familiar people, plays simple games like peek-a-boo

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

11 - 12 Months

Stands independently, begins to take first steps

Pincer grasp refined, starts stacking objects

Uses fingers to self-feed, begins to use spoon with help

Starts trying first words like “mama/dada”, imitates speech sounds

Starts exploring trial and error and enjoys basic cause and effect toys

Visually explores surroundings more actively, understands object permanence

Shows a wider range of emotions, expresses affection

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

13 - 15 Months

Walks independently, crawls upstairs

Scribbles with crayon, turns pages of a book

Eats a variety of finger foods, drinks from open cup with help

Follows simple instructions, vocabulary expands (+/- 3-5 words)

Imitates more complex actions, explores objects by shaking, banging, or dropping

Points to pictures in books, enjoys watching others actions

Shows independence, may have temper tantrums, begins parallel play

Gross Motor

Fine Motor

Feeding

Communication

Cognitive

Visual

Social/

Emotional

16 - 18 Months

Runs with more stability, climbs onto furniture, walks up stairs with help

Uses spoon with some control, stacks 2-3 blocks

Uses a spoon more effectively, starts to use a fork

Vocabulary expands (+/-10-20 words), starts putting 2 words together

Solves simple problems, recognizes shapes and colors, begins pretend play

Recognizes familiar objects in pictures, matches shapes with corresponding holes

Demonstrates empathy, enjoys playing with others but may still engage in parallel play




October 28, 2024 — Lauren Wright